10.23.12
On Saturday we went to Buckelew Farms, a different pumpkin patch from the one we went to a week ago {Agua Linda Pumpkin Patch }. Although the first pumpkin patch we went to was pretty nice it did lack good pumpkins not to mention that they didn't have any white pumpkins so I left that pumpkin patch feeling a little cheated and made it a point to visit another pumpkin patch to get nice pictures of the kids in the middle of them. We found just that at Buckelew Farms.
In dealing with my kids attitudes honestly I lay down the rules either before we leave the house or while we're in the car. I'm very straight forward and I never sugarcoat anything. I hate beating around the bush. There are times when one of them is in a bad mood and before we get to our destination we tell them that their attitude better change or else they will get grounded and have their electronics taken away. I also bring up that their bad attitude also puts a damper on the rest of the family and that I will not let either one of them ruin our fun outing. And you know what? They do listen because they know I mean business. Anyone that knows me good knows that I'm strict and I never give in. It's either behave or suffer the consequences.
This is why more often than not we end up having a great time when we're out. Also, what I like about the way Sydna and Nathan are is that they know their mom pretty well. They know what I expect of them, what upsets me, and to be available and have their eye out for me if I need their help. Sometimes I really don't need the help and once in a while I don't ask for their help but wait to see if they will assist me on their own ... and they do. I do this because I want them to remember to always be willing to help people even if they don't ask for help.
I want to live my life like country music ... to have a close knit family, God in our lives, learning together, live simply, a lot of cozy times, hearty meals, and fun outings. And thanks to God we have all this.
Praise the Lord.
However raising a strong God loving family is a joint effort and the assistance of both parents is imperative. I don't pretend to know all the answers but it is obvious that we cannot be spiritual successful if we don't put God first. We hardly go to church and yes I wish we went more often but then again now as an adult I don't believe I have to go every Sunday to be right with God however I do believe it is very important to have our children go as much as possible. Maybe what we should do is this: aside from all of us going to church Jacob and I should take turns in taking the kids so the kids can go every sunday but it gives us adults a chance to get something done around the house then one of us can stay home and do that. I don't think it's hypocritical because it's the relationship one has with God that matters and not by how many Sundays one is at church.
Wow! This post really took a different turn than talking about our time at the pumpkin patch. I guess I got sidetracked because I was talking about how I lay down the rules before an outing and it went straight to God talk. I wont apologize though. Let's move on shall we.
We arrived at the pumpkin patch just before noon. Again this was our first visit to this one. I liked that they had ample parking and their pumpkin patch was huge AND they had white pumpkins. Woo hoo!
It didn't matter that I was about the only one wearing sandals, lol. Doesn't matter because you know I don't like the feeling of lotion on my legs so as soon as I got home I washed my legs and feet off. They did have wheel barrels but they were only to use from the wagon ride to your vehicle. That's silly. They should be available to haul throughout the patch! Anyway, we had fun looking for pumpkins in this massive patch. We even came across a rat. Sydna about freaked out. They don't bother me.
We typically don't buy food at these places because the times we have their burgers are less than desirable and overpriced so you feel duped ... but we do buy snacks and yummies. The kids got slushees and Jacob got kettle korn. He always has to buy some when we go to fairs or places like these. I wasn't craving anything {I'm more the pastry type}so after about two hours we left.
It was past lunch time so we stopped at Five Guys on our way to the house. This is the new location by the house.
After we ate and rested Jacob and Nathan went out front to play a bit of football ... so Riley and I tagged along. This little guy is going to love football just as much as big brother.
Then Sydna and Jacob played Othello while Riley drank his milk bottle. We had disneys A Christmas Carol on. That's his routine at night. We always watch a Christmas movie as a family before going to bed.
You know what my kids constantly say all on their own? When we're out for whatever reason they say that they want to go home and watch something cozy. Whether to them cozy means a Harry Potter movie, a Christmas movie, or a family movie it doesn't matter because what they feel is what they are referring to. The ambiance that we create as a loving family is what they long for. I love this!

































































